OUCH. Sounds like the fire-related problems hit you quite a bit worse than I guessed. But I can't fault you for failing to give it your all - obviously you have! And I do appreciate that you're willing to keep to your commitment, no matter how long it takes.
So I'll just wait however long it takes. Sometimes bad things happen, and sharing the burden is part of what Kickstarter's about. In the meantime, I'll be recommending your products to friends every chance I get - hopefully if enough people plug your excellent work it'll help you get back on your feet sooner, which is about as close to a win-win as we're likely to see unless you win the lottery or something... (now wouldn't that be swell of Karma to arrange something like that?)
Try not to get too discouraged, and I promise I'll be thrilled with my dice no matter when (or even if!) I get them. Good luck!
OH, one more thing - I bet I'm not the only one who'd love to get even the most basic items; something to appreciate while waiting for the fancier, more expensive stuff, y'know? Not sure if shipping would make this impractical, but if you think it's possible you might want to offer "piecemeal" rewards like that. I bet for a LOT of people, it'd really help take the sting off the piles of bad news. Your call, just an idea